A comprehensive guide to the first 4 mights, maybes, and musts of engagement!
Snapshots from our enchanting Fresh Focus event at The Sixpence captured by The Lang Co.
So you just got engaged – Congratulations! Now what? The beginning of an engagement is so exciting, but can feel like a bit of a whirlwind. Follow our go-to guide for the first 5 steps after you say “yes”, to set the scene for seamless planning!
1. First Things First: Announce!
If you’re keeping things simple, you might just text your immediate loved ones with ring pictures, then send a digital or physical Save the Dates for the wedding. If you’re ready to soak up every second of the process, plan an engagement party at an intimate space like Hotel Carmichael’s Feinstein’s or the The Fountain Room. Or split the difference and host an intimate, casual engagement brunch with a few favorites and send Save the Dates to the rest!
Vendor favorites at this point:
Russell the Brand provides adorable balloons and customized backdrops for intimate gatherings, brunch, bachelorette/engagement parties.
The Lang Co. for dreamy story-telling photos from “yes” (engagement) to “I Do” (wedding day) + beyond. Check out their new studio Muse on Main St. for photos, intimate events, + more.
Take a journey with your stationer: Explore one of our favorites, The Lettering Grove.
Vegas-inspired styled shoot captured by The Lang Co.
2. Let’s Get Organized: Book Your Planner + Set Your Budget
If you’re going full scale, it’s time to book the planner that can bring your wedding day vision to life, and ensure you connect with the best of the best vendors in every category for your day. If you’re opting for a day of coordinator only, be sure to keep yourself organized with a planner.
Tip for setting your budget: sit with your partner and make a list of priority items for your day and words you want to associate with your wedding. This will help you envision the possibilities, and ensure you’re on the same page when it comes to priorities.
Vendor favorites at this point:
Visit The Wedding Studio and experience an elevated gown shopping experience.
Check out Thoughtfully Designed if your looking for a planner that gets “it” – a team of genius planners, coordinators, designers, florists, and creatives who can help bring a unique and thoughtful design to your day.
Start a skincare regimen with a fabulous provider like Face Foundrié (20% off first visit with code SIXPENCE20).
Elegance in Ivory | gown by Sophia’s, coordinated by Annie + Co. | The Lang Co.
3. Feel the Vibe: Start Thinking Aesthetics
This fun step of planning will help set the ambiance of your entire wedding journey experience. Sit with your partner and write down 5 words you want to describe your wedding day. Then, you’ll be able to start envisioning the specifics.
Vendor favorites at this point:
Sweet & Savory this catering partner offers made-from-scratch delights of every kind – bringing to life your vision of beautiful + delicious food on wedding day
DJ Fred Lockstar knows how to bring your guests to the dancefloor, and set the scene with lighting and sound to make your day’s soundtrack perfect
A few wedding aesthetics we’re currently obsessed with:
4. Where & When? Selecting Your Venue + Date
Finding the Perfect Venue: Your venue is the canvas for your entire wedding day, so it’s important to choose a place that reflects the vibe you’re going for. Whether it’s a lush garden, a chic city loft, a grand ballroom, or a cozy barn, think about how the space makes you feel and how it aligns with the atmosphere you want to create. Consider your guest list size, accessibility, and the season to make sure it accommodates your dream day.
Choosing the Date: Your wedding date sets the rhythm for your planning, so make sure it feels right for you both! Do you want to tie the knot on a meaningful anniversary, or are you dreaming of a particular season? Take into account family schedules, holidays, and the availability of your desired venue. It’s also smart to have a backup date in case your first choice is already taken. And don’t forget to think about the weather! Certain venues might be perfect in spring, but a hot summer day could alter the whole experience.
Together, the venue and date will create the perfect backdrop for your wedding day story, so make sure to choose thoughtfully!
Champagne tower of your dreams captured by The Lang Co.
Many Sixpence clients book their venue first. So if you’re an approaching this list a little out of order, don’t stress! We’re just here to remind you of a few priority “to dos” that will set the scene for a seamless wedding journey.
Are you ready for your big day? Early in the planning process? We’re committed to bringing you inspiration, resources, and recommendations to help design your dream day. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @the_sixpence to stay in the loop.
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